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The Issue of Life II

08 Tuesday Aug 2017

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All Lives Matter, Black Lives Matter, Equality, media, Media Bullshit, peace, riots

By Narcissa Lyons

 

This is the second of a two part article, though at the writing of part one (see The Issue of Life ) I did not realize it would have a follow up .  I write this today because I was reminded by a friend about a week ago of how I have shifted on my approach to the “Black Lives Matter” statement. Continue reading →

Summer Seafood Salad

29 Saturday Jul 2017

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crab, seafood, seafood salad, squid, summer

By Narcissa Lyons

Level of Difficulty:  Easy but a little bit of time, say an hour (ideal if you have Hungarian Mayonnaise ready made)

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Wagging Fingers

10 Monday Jul 2017

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highway signs, lecturing, signs

By Narcissa Lyons

I live in Massachusetts but have driven to the usual states one does when wanting to get away, get to the beach, the hills, nature and all that.  Vermont.  Connecticut. Maine.  New Hampshire.  A few others.  I used to think it was just our fine lecturing state that wagged its fingers at their drivers, but I have seen it all over. Continue reading →

One of the Two

12 Monday Jun 2017

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art garfunkel, concert, music, Simon & Garfunkel

By Narcissa Lyons

Here is my first musical performance review so forgive any mishaps if that even applies given it’s all opinion anyway.  Continue reading →

From the Manor Torn

30 Tuesday May 2017

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family, home

By Narcissa Lyons

 

Perhaps it was doomed from the outset with a name like “Lazy Acres” because that is what the estate sign read at the bottom of the hill when first we drove up in 1977.  I found out the other day that Lazy Acres, my mother’s house, finally sold. That our home and home base finally sold.  Continue reading →

The Heaven of H20

21 Friday Apr 2017

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drowning, ocean, rain, sensual, skinny dipping, water

By Narcissa Lyons

A casual drink of water started one hell of a thought path, but I may think of water more often than most. Is my conclusion anyway. Continue reading →

Happy Endings, Yay!

05 Wednesday Apr 2017

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happy ending, massage, rub and tug, sex

By Mezmerelda

 

Even if some subjects that fall into Erotica don’t get you going or turn you on, they will typically interest you, or question human nature some more.  But some subjects are interesting and fun, and this is one that just makes me smile.   Continue reading →

Ode to the Silent Fight

14 Tuesday Mar 2017

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women, women's day

By Narcissa Lyons

 

I went to work this past Wednesday and one of my workmates  asked me what I was doing there.  “Here I was thinking it was typical to show up if you wanted a pay check”. Continue reading →

Artless, Chapters 1 & 2

04 Saturday Mar 2017

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art, Love, Romance, romance novel

By Narcissa Lyons

 

Chapter One

Garrett Darrs walked quickly and resolutely to the car waiting for him on Lexington Avenue.  Although his usual gait was one of a casual confidence, his eyes fixed ahead of him, today was miserable and he just wanted to reach his car.  He didn’t believe in umbrellas, perhaps stupidly to his admission, so he bowed his head in the rain with the Wall Street Journal doing its best to shield him from at least the bad news of rain.  He was grateful that Nick was on time, because let’s face it, Nick was never on time.  Nick, his driver, was a bad judge of traffic, a bit off with general direction, and prone to too many newsstand discussions that did not involve looking at his watch.  Garrett had occasionally thought to oust him from his employment, and often wondered how Nick had made it long enough for Garrett to come to like him, but couldn’t really bring himself to do it.  He didn’t know if it was because he liked Nick (and Nick always made sure he had a cigar for Garrett whenever the moment required one), or whether he was convinced Nick would not likely be hired by anyone else.  But it didn’t matter today.  Nick was right there, his head hidden by paper news. Garrett opened the back door and stepped in (Nick did not open the car doors since he was usually late so Garrett would do it, and then Nick invariably forgot about that small but essential service). Continue reading →

Lucskos Káposzta (Sloppy Cabbage Stew)

26 Sunday Feb 2017

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cabbage soup, lucskos kaposzta, Soup

Might not look like much (hence the name), but man is this good.  If it would have been up to me I would have called this “Meat Stew” for obvious reasons on the ingredients list, but this is a traditional Hungarian stew, is fabulous and slightly decadent, and is especially tasty on a winter’s day.  As with many recipes, there are several versions of this dish out there, but this is what I have always had growing up, and I think it is the more “classic” rendition, but  I’m not an authority on the subject so who knows.  Also like most soups & stews, it gets better as it sits longer in the fridge (to a point of course).

1-1/2 lb. fatty pork stew meat or spare ribs (boneless)

1-1/2 lb. fresh brisket of beef (not corned beef)

1 lg. cabbage

1/4 lb. smoked bacon (Optional)

~ 3TB oil

1 lg. Red Onion, diced

1 bunch tarragon

Salt and Pepper to taste

1/4  – 1/2 C white or red wine vinegar (depends on taste and how much liquid you ended up using).

Sour Cream to taste (1C seems to me the bare minimum)

 

In a large pot place the beef and pork. Fill with cold water to cover meat plus a little.  Add a tablespoon of salt.  Bring to a boil and then let simmer for 1-1/2 hours.  Remove from heat, reserve the broth, and set meat out on a cutting board to cool until you can cut it into ~ 1″ cubes.

Meanwhile, cut the cabbage in manageable wedges and place them on a rack in the sink, salt them and pour about a kettles’ worth of boiling water over them.  If such racks are not available you can always just toss them in a pot of boiling water for a couple of minutes and then drain them.  If you are using bacon, cut it into pieces.

In a large pot, heat the oil and then toss in the onions, sautéing until they are translucent. Take off the heat and place 1/3 of the cabbage on top of the onions in a layer.  Salt & Pepper.  Place the beef cubes and 1/2 the bacon if using.  Spread 1/2 the remaining cabbage as the next layer, then add the tarragon (I just use the leaves from the bunch). Add the pork and the rest of the bacon.  Finally, cover with the last of the cabbage. Salt and Pepper.

Skim most of the fat off the top of the saved broth and pour it over the layered ingredients.  If it does not reach the top add some water being mindful you don’t dilute the broth too much.  Bring to a simmer and let it simmer for 30-40 minutes.  Taste it as it will likely need more salt and pepper.  Add the vinegar and set aside to cool.  Add the sour cream and stir.

It is good to serve with another dollop of sour cream in the bowl from this chef’s perspective.  Enjoy it with a chunk of good bread and a glass of white wine.  Or a color of your choice.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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